Oh What A Lucky Man
Well its been a busy week for me. My friend Brandon Boyd is putting out a new record Tuesday, July 6th. But, instead of an Incubus record, its a solo record. Its is first musicaI offering apart from the band. And so, there have been a ton of last minute details to check and recheck, information to be gathered and disseminated, emails to send and emails to read, and phone calls to make and phone calls to take. Normally, having a real job is the kiss of death to one’s golf game. Too much work means not enough time for golf. But, I find that when I have a proper balance of business and golf I do better at both. So I suppose its no coincidence that as we’ve gotten closer to the release of his record that my golf game has started to sharpen up and show some signs of life.
Ok. So you’re wondering what does Brandon Boyd’s solo album have to do with my golf game. Alot as it turns out. For Brandon, making a solo record was a journey he had to take to find out some things about who he is as an artist, a musician, a songwriter. Forget that his band Incubus has sold millions or records and concert tickets around the world. He needed to know what he was all about standing there butt naked in front of the world with no band mates to share either the triumph or the disaster. He just needed to know.
For me its the same. I’ve led the most incredible life. One I could only have dreamed of as a kid. A great wife, 2 great sons, the greatest job in the world. And while art has always been a part of Brandon’s life, golf has been a part of my life for 42 of my 55 years on this old planet of ours. Golf is my art and like Brandon I want to see how good I can be.
And in the process of helping Brandon on his musical and personal journey I found myself inspired to take on my own mission, to compete in the USGA Senior Amateur Championship. I found myself going through all the same head trips, bouts of frustration, insecurity, and fear of failure that he was going through. And you know what, its brought us closer together as an artist and manager. His mission to make a personal musical statement and my mission to be as a great a golfer as I can be have led to countless conversations about process, about letting go, about facing our fears and overcoming them.
And so what started out as a blog to talk about golf, has at least in the short term, turned into something of a self help guide for anybody looking for their own personal gut check.